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We’re almost there! But we haven’t yet considered how the user will interact with the computer, which means providing at least a keyboard and mouse!

Keyboards come in many shapes, sizes, and styles. They also have categories. The first is whether they are wired (USB) or wireless. After that, there are conventional layouts, curved or ergonomic. There are also special keyboards with extra multimedia buttons or those to help people with conditions, such as carpal tunnel syndrome.

Some people have a preference for shape or brand, so ask before purchasing for them.

Wireless keyboards offer the benefit of - well - having no wire, which can help keep a desk tidy. The user can also stow the keyboard in a drawer when not in use.

Let's look at three wireless keyboard options:

• Bluetooth

• Non-Bluetooth

• Multimedia.

Bluetooth (BT) keyboards use the Bluetooth wireless standard to pair with the PC operating system’s Bluetooth service. The PC must have a Bluetooth adapter. You might get one with the keyboard, or you might have to buy your own. You could also choose a motherboard with built-in Bluetooth (it’s not common, so it may be expensive).

The Bluetooth pairing functionality is managed by the operating system (Windows, Linux, etc.), not the motherboard. 

This means that the keyboard will not be ready for use during system startup - which is when you need to press a key to enter the motherboard’s setup pages. In other words: if a PC has a Bluetooth keyboard, you might need to plug in a wired one to set up the machine or perform on-site maintenance later.

The benefit of a Bluetooth keyboard is that you can also pair it with your phone or tablet, should you wish.

Wireless (non-Bluetooth) keyboards communicate with their receiver rather than pairing with the operating system’s Bluetooth service so that they appear to the computer like an ordinary wired keyboard.

Such keyboards will work during PC startup and can be used to select the motherboard setup program.

These keyboards include controls for audio playback and volume control, usually as an additional top row of knobs and buttons.

There’s a vast array of wired and wireless mice available. Some mice have ergonomic shapes, while others have extra buttons for multimedia applications and gaming.

Some people have a preference for mouse shape or brand, so ask before purchasing one for them.

You can also purchase special mice, which are differently-shaped PC controllers. For example, the trackball mouse, or commercial products, such as the Penguin, are designed for people with wrist difficulties who find conventional mice painful to use after a while.

Wireless mice can be Bluetooth (or not).

Some businesses do not permit wireless keyboards and mice due to the risk of third-party signal interception. You may need to check out the information security policy. 

People working in graphic design or video editing may want a graphics (digitizing) tablet, which can be used in place of, or in addition to, a mouse. Graphics tablets can be pen- or puck-input devices and come in various sizes from A5 upwards.

Almost all desktop mice use an optical assembly to sense movement. These sometimes do not work well on shiny, plain-colored, or glass-topped desks. In this case, a mouse pad provides a mouse-friendly area.

Pads range from simple, fabric-covered soft foam square to solid rubber ones. You can also find ones made from recycled materials

Your PC user may also need a wrist or wrist-and-elbow rest to take pressure off the nerves, wrists, and elbows while typing. There’s a vast array of these products available as gel-filled and fabric items:

Here are some points to consider when shopping for a keyboard, mouse, or alternative input device:

• Which type of interface? Wired or wireless, Bluetooth or not?

• Any ergonomic needs? Does the user need a specific type or layout?

• Any accessories needed? Any need for a mouse pad, a wrist, or wrist-and-elbow rest?

Types of Bags: Every woman should know some information about these 5 types of bags! | 5 types of bags every girl needs to have

Want to carry a sling bag on your shoulder when going to the movies with friends. But I want a separate bag for outing or going to the office. Because women’s bags mean that if all the things in the world don’t fit there, then it is not a bag. Again in the winter the fleet of bags grows again. From a sling or a handbag, it can be turned into a tote bag. The bag is one of the things that people have a mental relationship with.

Matching bags with clothes is a part of fashion. Here’s what to look for and tactics to help ease the way.

Crossbody bag- The winter season requires a bag that will be quite comfortable for the shoulders. The crossbody bag in it is quite comfortable. Kabesh brings a variegated look all over the body but looks good with all the clothes. You can also use this bag for a glamorous look.

Handle bag- This type of bag is suitable for winter days with heavy coats or jackets. You can also use it as a top handle bag if you want. As convenient as it is to carry, it is possible to keep many things in the bag.

Tote bag- This bag fits with any stylish outfit. You can choose different patterns and variations with different leathers, different fabrics. There are also many colors. You can carry all your necessities in a tote bag.

Clutch- This kind of small bag gives a very smart look at the wedding season or at the party. Don’t forget to use a nice clutch for a Sunday brunch in winter or for a dinner date with your boyfriend.

Saddle bag- For those who know a little bit about fashion, this type of bag is quite trending nowadays. This bag is appreciated for its smart and luxurious look.

Basically, Instagram is a mobile app where you can share photos and videos. Facebook-owned Instagram is a social networking app now available on the desktop too. Like Facebook, to use Instagram you have to create the account on Instagram after that you will get news feed and other Instagram features which you can use. Nowadays Instagram is very popular worldwide and more than 800 million monthly daily active users. It does not matter how Instagram is famous, everything has two sides. Tha’s why here I am writing about advantages and disadvantages of Instagram.

Instagram is free to use: Instagram is free to use like other social networks. Anyone can download, install and use Instagram on their smartphone. I always say free has power and that’s why Instagram gain popularity. It is the main advantage of using Instagram for your personal and business purpose. It’s free so it reduces your initial cost of business. You can use all features of Instagram freely so you can post, follow, DM freely on Instagram. 

Instagram is fastest growing social network: Instagram is fastest growing social network that has grown widely in recent years. Instagram reached 800 million monthly active users in 2017 while it has 500 million active users daily.  More than 52 million photos uploaded per day on Instagram. Instagram has more than 60% users from outside the USA. If you are looking to promote your business on  Instagram then it is the wise decision.

Best for Photo sharing: The main feature of Instagram is photo sharing. A picture is worth a thousand words like that images convey more information than written words. Instagram is the best platform for photo sharing so if you are photographer or graphics designer then Instagram is the best choice for you. You can promote your brand or products visually on Instagram. 

Build community using Instagram: You can follow people on Instagram and people will follow back you on Instagram. It is best for building an interactive following community. You can comment and tag people in your Instagram posts. Instagram has instant messaging feature too and it is called as ‘Direct Message’. You can connect or contact your followers or your followers can contact you via DM. It means Instagram is also best choice to build your community and share your work with like-minded people. You can also use hashtags in Instagram posts to boost your reach. Now you can follow and unfollow hashtags on Instagram. 

Security and privacy policy: Instagram has very useful security and privacy policy and it is one of the most important advantages of Instagram. Like other social networking sites, Instagram has also the age limit for users. Persons over 13 years old can create an account on Instagram or use Instagram.

You can keep your Instagram profile private. While picking this choice other users who need to see the photographs, videos or some other component of the profile ought to send a follow-up demand to the user with the private account. This user has the authority to accept or reject such demand.

In case of the user, violates terms and conditions or privacy policy of Instagram can ban or block a user from posting on Instagram. You have also option to block, unfollow and report people to Instagram.

Best for visual marketing: Instagram is the best photo and short video sharing platform. Nowadays visual marketing is latest in this era. Images play a vital role in visual marketing and images being part of the business marketing method.For each result of business, actually pictures was an absolute necessity medium for visual advertising to make simple for customer thought about the product and through Instagram, the merchant should know how to give an extraordinary data as indicated by the pictures rather than only a plain content of data.

Advantages of Instagram for students: Instagram also provides educational benefits so here we are covering both advantages and disadvantages of Instagram for students. If you are interested in photography then Instagram is the best place to learn and improve your photography skills. Some students started learning photo editing tools due to Instagram.

Instagram improve your language skill. Students use Instagram to share opinions and views on different topics. Students also can take part in the group discussion on Instagram by taking part in a group activity where here each student asks the others to comment on a photo or video. Thus students can improve their language skill using Instagram.

Students can share knowledge on Instagram. Students can share knowledge via multimedia or students can do two-way communications using DM. Nowadays Instagram has a poll option so students can use a poll option to discuss different topics with other students. these are the advantages of Instagram for students.

Instagram has a lot of advantages but it also some disadvantages too. Here we are discussing some disadvantages of Instagram.

Mobile friendly design:  Instagram was created for mobile use only.  The Instagram design is more suitable for mobile phones and tablets. Instagram has a desktop version too but it has limited features as compared to a mobile version of Instagram. It means to use Instagram you have at least smartphone.

Addictive: Like other social networking sites Instagram is also addictive. Once you get addictive on Instagram it will cost you a lot. It will consume your valuable time. 

Rely on images: Instagram depends on images. If your images are attractive then you will get more Instagram likes, comments, and followers. If the photos are not attractive enough, then the account will not have as many followers and if your business is virtual then your business will fail.

Image stealing problem: Your followers can easily view and access your Instagram images. You can’t keep every image private so other users can easily steal your images. It means if you have quality and professional images there is always a fear of someone stealing your images.

Image Privacy: Image privacy is another disadvantage of Instagram. You can’t set the privacy of each photo differently. They are all either private or public.

Advertising Issue: Numerous stores depend on Instagram to promote their items and services. In some cases, these accounts turn to false advertising to draw in clients. This can produce doubt with respect to the clients. It means Instagram has false advertising and it is also one disadvantage of Instagram.

Disadvantages of Instagram for students: As I mentioned earlier, Instagram is addictive and it will consume your time. If you are a student and you are the heavy user of Instagram it will waste your valuable time. For students time is money so use Instagram with caution.

Some students left their studies and destroy their career to become the influence on Instagram. Don’t do that because you can become Instagram influence any time after complete your study.

These are the advantages and disadvantages of Instagram.If you know any other advantages and disadvantages of Instagram share with us in a comment box and don’t forget to share this valuable information with other people.

Ever wish you knew exactly what happened during a controversial customer service call? Hate trying to find a pencil to write down information when taking calls on-the-go? Call recording benefits your small business by providing a higher level of service to customers.

Here are four scenarios in which call recording benefits small businesses:

There is no substitution for learning on the job when it comes to handling customers. By using company-wide recording, you can set rules around which extensions you record, such as all of your customer service phone lines. Recordings are usually captured in the cloud and are available for you to access online anytime. Not only can you send a recording out to a whole team if you hear a great example of stellar customer service, but you can play back recordings as you coach new employees on what they did right and what they could have done better during real-life calls. Plus, your workers will always be on their toes because they'll know there is a good chance you're listening.

Say you are in the car and a potential customer you've been trying to track down for weeks finally calls you back. You pull over, and since you have call recording through a mobile app, you turn on the recorder and take the call. Then, when you get back to your desk, you can listen to the call with your user portal and transcribe all the important details about the customer's needs. No more hunting for a pen on your floorboard, or ending up with chicken-scratch notes from writing against your steering wheel.

Customers get upset. It happens. When on the phone, employees often know that irate customers are going to call their boss immediately after they hang up. When you have a recording option on your phone system, employees can simply hit the on-demand recording option during the call so their supervisor can hear exactly what happened. This way, they'll know how to handle the upset customer with the he-said, she-said game taken off the table. Plus, if necessary, the employee can be coached for future calls.

Say your team needs to have a gathering to figure out delivery dates for a big project and sets up a conference call. But, of course, someone is running late. Your team can simply record the conference call so the missing team member can listen later. You're not spending extra time playing catch-up with the latecomer and everyone has the necessary information.

By using call recording throughout your business processes, it can make a big difference to both your employees and customers. When in doubt, just record the call.

A manicure set is a great way to save money. Buying doing your nails yourself you save the time and expense that you would normally spend when getting your nails done. To keep your fingernails looking fresh, a weekly trip to the nail salon is necessary. For pedicures, a monthly trip is the minimum. A manicure set allows you to take professional quality care of your nails.

When buying a nail set, look at the various tools that the kit contains. Most manicure kits will contain nail clippers, a small set of scissors, a tool to push the cuticles back and a metal file. There may be other tools in the set as well.

The manicure set is often contained in a wallet, pouch or box. Each tool typically has a slot or elastic strap to hold it in place. This allows you to keep the entire manicure kit stored together.

When choosing a manicure set, it is important to inspect the quality of the tools. Sometimes, sets that are packaged as gift sets are not high quality. In fact, sometimes the implements can be such a low quality that they break the first time that they are used. No matter how cute the packaging, if the tools are flimsy or poorly constructed, the manicure kit is worthless.

Another consideration that you should take when choosing a manicure set is how it is packaged. If storage is at a premium in your home or you want to carry the set with you, a compact manicure kit is important. If you enjoy the spa experience, and routinely spread out all of your tools and spend the evening doing your nails, you may appreciate a manicure set that can be left out in your bathroom with all of the tools on display for easy access.

If you plan to leave the manicure set where it is visible in your home, an attractive design is important. Manicure sets are available in baskets, clear Lucite containers and soft sided pouches. A manicure set that contains well made tools is the most important part of the selection process. An attractive container is the perfect complement.

With the help of many types of erotic massage, you can fully get an unprecedented pleasure that cannot be compared with any other sensations. This fully applies to Nuru massage. We propose to learn more about it and explain its nature, differences from other massages, and what are its main characteristics and benefits.

The term Nuru comes from the East and means something very slippery. It is a principal characteristic of this highly demanded erotic massage technique. When we say that Nuru massage is slippery, we mean that the client's body is covered with various oils. Thus, the severity of pleasant sensations during the massage session increases.

During a Nuru session, massage therapists at WatchTouch, an erotic massage center in Paris, traditionally use the arms, torso, or even legs or buttocks, stimulating the intensity of somewhat painful but desirable pleasure.

Nuru is performed when the client is passively and relaxed, lying face up or down, experiencing completely new sensations. Natural and essential oils make the skin more sensitive to the movements of the masseur.

PHOTOS OF MASSEUSES

Nuru has performed in a room away from outside noise, accompanied by flowing melodies in oriental motives, and Chill-out, Zen, and other musical styles. This background music helps to disconnect from the outside world and focus on anticipation and receiving sensations of pleasure.

Lighting also matches relaxation by enhancing the body's tactile rather than visual stimuli. LED lights work best in warm colors such as yellow, orange, or red. Straight light can be camouflaged well and create partial shade.

Another important element is natural and essential oils. It is especially desirable to use a particularly slippery vegetable oil Nuru. During the session, it will cover the client's body for easy gliding on it by the masseur.

You need a lot of natural or essential oils to perform a good massage. Such oils are commercially available in specialized cosmetics stores in a sufficient variety and quantity.

One of the advantages of Nuru erotic massage is that you can easily share the pleasure with your partner. Even if the couple does not have professional massage skills, the couple will find themselves in the energy field of love and sex with the help of a slippery massage and will intuitively perform the correct movements.

When people have sex, they usually focus exclusively on the genitals, while neglecting other parts of the body. And this is a big minus and deprives oneself of additional pleasure since numerous sensitive nerve endings are located practically on the entire surface of the skin.

These nerve endings through the stimulus — massaging — allow you to fully enjoy the sensations. You should not deprive yourself of the opportunity to massage all parts of the partner's body before and during sex and feel how pleasure intensively spreads to the erogenous zones and every skin area.

Women who are girlfriend material are not as scarce as you might think. They are found all over the city—walking in the park, reading a book in the library, staring at a painting in a gallery, or just sipping coffee at a local coffee shop. They can even be sitting right next to you in class or working on the same project a couple of cubicles away. You just have to know how to look for them.

You’ve been to your local bar almost every night of the week. You’re like Barney Stinson hanging around McLaren’s every night, hoping to meet a girl, only you’re not looking for just any girl. You’re looking for a woman who is girlfriend material. Well, sailor, there’s a reason it’s Barney who frequents the bar, and not Ted. Barney is looking for a good time, and Ted is the one looking for a girlfriend. You might be looking for the right person, albeit at the wrong place.

Well, if you can’t find her in a bar, where else can you find her? There are a ton of places where you can meet women. The key is going into a place that is of interest to you as well. You may find the girl you’re looking for while reading in the public library, but if you’re not interested in reading, you will NOT sustain her interest. To find a woman who is girlfriend material, you must first be within her sights, and you MUST be boyfriend material.

Are you boyfriend material?

Before you embark on the challenge of meeting women who are girlfriend material, you must first make sure that you are boyfriend material. Are you emotionally ready to love someone and commit to them wholeheartedly? Are you mature enough to handle the challenges that a relationship entails? Are you financially ready to sustain a relationship?

If you’re not, then please don’t bother. You’ll just lose her all over again, and even hurt her in the process. You might even change a woman who is girlfriend material into someone who is not. 

Women who are girlfriend material

Not all women are girlfriend material. Some just want to enjoy the evening with you and forget you the next day. Some want to be somebody’s girlfriend, thinking they are ready and able to be one, even though they may still lack some of the essential qualities.

A woman who is girlfriend material is someone who is emotionally ready to handle a relationship. She is one who knows what she wants and knows when to compromise. She is one who can handle the commitment needed in a long term relationship. She is able and ready to be one half of a relationship.

Where to find the elusive potential girlfriend

There are a number of places in the city where you are likely to meet a woman who is girlfriend material. You can stick to the places you frequent, which can be listed below, or you might want to go out of your comfort zone and check other locations. Just make sure you don’t come off as a predator actively looking for his prey. Stay classy!

#1 While jogging or in the running path. A woman who runs regularly is a woman who knows how to take care of her body. She is active and healthy. She knows that her physical health is important, and so is her mental and emotional health. She is not one to mind being sweaty around other people, as she knows this is just normal. Little does she know, she is radiant without even trying.

#2 Library or bookstore. She can be caught up inside the worlds contained in her books, but if you allow her, she’ll gladly introduce them to you. She’ll tell you all about the wonderful places she’s read about, as well as all the interesting characters. You can talk to her about anything and everything. It can be about local politics, a hunger strike in some far off country, the recent advances in space travel, or even the funniest exploits of some of the royal mistresses throughout history.

You need not worry that she’ll be out partying on Friday nights, flirting with other guys when you’re out of town. She’ll most probably be curled up in bed reading a novel instead.

#3 Your favorite restaurant. She dines alone or with friends and orders anything she wants on the menu. She may even know some of the items OFF the menu—a sign of a regular diner. She savors her meals without glancing at her phone or talking noisily with her girlfriends over it. She’s not on a diet, nor does she have some made-up gluten allergy.

She’s a regular girl who loves her food and savors them. However, she doesn’t overeat. She takes care of her health and respects her body. She’ll let you pick some fries off her plate though, as long as you eat your half of the dessert.

#4 Gig bars. She loves great music, and she appreciates the artists who make them. She goes to gig bars to listen to live music. With her eyes closed, she savors the taste of the ice-cold beer in her hand and the soothing melodies she is hearing. She is laid back and easygoing, a woman who will appreciate a date night at home, with a box of pizza and soothing jazz music to ease the troubles of the day.

#5 Music concerts and festivals. She is not afraid to dance to the beat amongst the crowd. She is a free spirit, a hippie in strappy leather sandals and long skirts. She doesn’t care about what people say about her. She is confident in her own skin and she exudes that confidence. With her, you are sure to have fun. 

#6 On vacation. She loves to travel and meet new people. She is not wary of foreign cultures, nor is she hesitant to meet the locals during her travels. She is very independent. She can go on a trip on her own or together with other people. She is bursting with excitement when traveling to new places.

When you’re with her, she’ll infect you with the travel bug. and you’ll explore the world together. She’ll introduce you to new cities, new experiences, and countless other adventures. With her, you’ll never be bored. For her, life and relationships are enriched by going outside of your comfort zone and meeting new people in new places. Think Julia Roberts in Eat, Pray, Love. 

#7 By the beach. She is a woman who would gladly trade her feet for a tail, if only to explore underwater. She is a mermaid incarnate, comfortable in water and on the beach, just sitting on the sand. With her, you can take off your shoes and just run towards the surf. She will have a tinkling laugh that you can hear over the sound of the waves. She is a happy soul and with her, you will be, too.

#8 Local coffee shop. She is the local girl living on the street next to yours. She is the schoolmate in your grade school that you never managed to say hi to. She is down to earth, with a warm smile that brings the local coffee haunt to life. She’ll be spending her afternoons there, reading a thin novel to accompany her latte. She will eat cake, or some other pastry. She enjoys the calm, quiet life, and with her, life is devoid of drama.

#9 In the park. She’ll be the one feeding the pigeons. She’ll take a few minutes off work and bring a few crumbs from her lunch bread to feed the birds in the park. They know her by now, as she has been doing this quite regularly. She is sensitive, the kind of person who talks to squirrels when she sees them hanging around the park benches.

She’s not crazy though, just very empathetic. She loves nature—the trees, the grass, and the animals scampering around the park. With her, you’ll appreciate life, and not just human life.

#10 In your church. She’s the one sitting a few pews in front, reading the hymnal book. She might even be the one sitting beside you, listening intently to the preacher. She has a close relationship with her God, and she cherishes that relationship. She will share the same values and respect the same beliefs as you. She will be the one your parents hope you bring home to meet them one day.

#11 While doing volunteer work. She is a compassionate soul. You’ll find her on Thursday nights handing out food for the homeless in the local soup kitchen. You’ll find her in the animal shelter, petting the cats or walking the dogs around the neighborhood. Or she’ll be the one volunteering in the homes for the aged, playing chess with the grandpas or gossiping with the grandmas. With her, you’ll find your compassion. She will be the bright spot on your otherwise dreary day.

Our Favorite Venues for Meeting Women Outside of the Bar Scene

Remember loud, crowded bars? Watering holes so packed that getting a drink seemed like an impossible task, let alone making a meaningful connection with someone whose name you were barely able to catch over the cranked up music.

With most bars and clubs closed for the time being as we continue through the COVID-19 pandemic, it leaves one lingering question many guys would like answered: How do you meet women you’d like to date?

Historically, family friends, schoolmates, neighbors, colleagues and fellow churchgoers made up many of the people Americans started relationships with, but how do people do it nowadays, particularly with the COVID-19 pandemic impacting so many aspects of daily life, not the least of which is the tried-and-true method of meeting someone at a bar? 

In order to get a handle on how to meet women without going to potentially shuttered bars and clubs, AskMen spoke to two dating and relationship experts. Here’s what they had to say: 

If you’re one of the few people who hasn’t yet tried online dating, now’s the time to start. 

“Since the pandemic, dating apps have seen significant growth,” says Tennesha Wood, dating coach, matchmaker, and founder of The Broom List “That means that more singles are engaging with apps, giving you more options than ever before.” 

There are tons of different apps and sites out there, from all-purpose ones with huge user bases to swipe through to incredibly niche ones where finding someone with the same passion as you will be a snap. If you’re not sure where to start, consider AskMen’s online dating hub, which contains detailed reviews for literally hundreds of apps and sites. 

If you’re wary of dating apps, that’s understandable. Putting yourself on display for potential partners to judge can be daunting, and if you’re not having much success — putting together just the right profile is tricky — that can be seriously draining. 

Instead, Wood notes, you can use social media as another form of website or app. 

“Whatever you do, don't just say 'hi,’” she notes. “Initiate a conversation that focuses on things you have in common by asking a question, and inserting some humor.”

If she’s non-responsive, there’s no use hassling someone who’s not interested. However, there’s a chance that she, too, is looking for someone to chat with, and it could lead to some genuine flirtation if you play your cards right. 

On the other hand, sliding headfirst into someone’s DMs might not be your style. That’s where one of the oldest tricks in the book comes in: asking your friends to play matchmaker.

“You get the best odds of meeting desirable people when you meet them through your friends,” says Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D., psychotherapist and author of Dr. Romance's Guide to Finding Love Today. “Statistically, most people in successful marriages met their spouse through a friend or family member.”

However, it’s not necessarily as simple as announcing to all your pals, “I’m single, find me someone!,” explains Wood. 

“Your friends know women that you don't know, but don’t assume that they know what type of women you're looking for,” she says. “Be clear with your friends about what you're looking for and ask for their help.”

Of course, maybe you’d prefer to leave the matchmaking to the professionals? You might not realize that matchmakers are still a thing, but they very much still exist and are even experiencing a boom in recent years. 

“If you’re serious about meeting the right partner, using a matchmaker is a great option,” says Wood. “Matchmakers spend a lot of time getting to know their clients and understanding their needs to locate suitable matches. [And] one of the biggest advantages of using a matchmaker is the invaluable feedback they provide. After a date, it can be hard to gauge how your date feels and where they want to take the relationship from there; a matchmaker gets feedback from your dates and provides coaching in areas where you can improve.”

Sometimes, the most knowledgeable matchmaker can be… your own God? 

If you’re religious, there’s a decent chance that finding a partner with similar faiths is important to you, and one way to do that is through your own religious community.

“Generally, faith communities consist of people who get to know each other, and who can vouch for each other at least to some degree,” explains Tessina. “And a lot of people go to church are looking for connections.” 

Of course, depending on how religious you are, this may already be covered by the “tell your friends” portion of this article, but if you’re a semi-regular attendee of a church, mosque, synagogue or temple, speaking to a leader in the community about your relationship goals and asking if there are any potential suitable matches could go a long way. 

If you’ve ever heard the term “high school sweethearts” before, you’re familiar with the idea that someone at the same educational institution as you might be a good pairing. 

Such people will often be your age or close to it; they’ll likely have either a similar background, similar goals, or some combination thereof, and there’s a good chance your friend groups overlap at least a little bit. 

But even if you’ve already graduated long ago, that doesn’t mean you can’t meet single women in a learning context any longer.

“If you can choose something that genuinely interests you, and attracts the kind of people you’re looking for, you’ll have an excellent chance of at least making good friends,” says Tessina, “and a high probability of meeting someone suitable.”

However, she points out that "classes and workshops offer a better opportunity to interact with the other people than lectures do, unless the lecture is a regular event, or followed by a lab or a discussion, where you can interact with people.”

Similar to school, another place people have used as a dating pool is the workplace. However, this is one you have to be careful with, as there’s an increasing awareness that unwanted flirtation and romantic or sexual attention towards a coworker constitutes workplace sexual harassment (some companies having policies against coworker relationships entirely). 

Still, it’s only natural for people to develop attractions to their coworkers, and these can flourish into serious and lasting relationships if all goes right. 

“The reason so many people meet at work is that it supplies the criteria for bonding: contact, with meaningful content, over an extended period,” says Tessina. “Unlike online dating, and other one-time venues, the office gives you a chance to actually get to know and even bond with a person before declaring your interest.”

“Working side by side with someone daily, seeing them under pressure, commiserating over problems and congratulating over wins gives you a portrait of the person on the inside as well as the outside,” she adds. 

Like work, romance with people you live near is a high-stakes game that can end terribly, as having to see your ex on a regular basis — whether at the workplace or simply when you’re coming home with some groceries — can be deeply unpleasant.

Still, relationships with neighbors aren’t out of the question, provided you’re careful about establishing parameters in the early going. As it’s only natural to engage in small talk with the people you live near, if both parties are interested, that small talk could easily morph into more engaged discussions. 

“Pause outside to say a friendly hello, make a comment about the weather, ask when the trash is picked up, or what day the street sweeper comes by, borrow a cup of sugar, a wrench or a lawnmower, or pick up a piece of trash from your neighbor’s sidewalk,” suggests Tessina. “This is easier in a small town than it is in a big city because in a small town everyone expects to know everyone else. If you live in a metropolitan area, your neighbors are the other tenants in your apartment or condominium building. You can get to know these neighbors on the rooftop in hot weather, or by the swimming pool, in the park, or near the mailbox.”

One more viable option? Join a group, a club, or a society related to one of your interests. 

“Groups that are already organized, with planned events and structure, can be extremely helpful, especially if your group of friends is too small or too far away to be useful as a resource for meeting new people,” notes Tessina. “If you attend meetings and events of an organization for a while, you will soon make friends there. Most people you meet there will be known to the others, which makes it easier to know who you’re meeting.”

This could be anything, she adds. “Are you a collector? Do you have a favorite activity or interest? Do you love horses, travel, playing music, dancing, ’30s memorabilia or a stamp collection? Are you enthused about model trains, kite flying, or model planes? Are you an avid skier, gardener or hiker? Do you love playing bridge, chess, computer games? Do you like the mental challenge of math, or crosswords, or astronomy?”

“All of these interests have corresponding groups,” says Tessina. “When you find a group centered on your interests, that includes suitable people for dating, you have a great chance of meeting someone who already likes what you like.”